Successful escape from domestic violence bonds are created a people often in childhood. Such as Gabriele, has learned to obey and to adapt. Independence was more suppressed, rather than promoted. An easy prey for Kurt who used this to his advantage. 13 years Gabriele has put up his dictatorship. Before she could free from its clutches. The force took off to old patterns of behavior. Gabriele accompany on their way to a happy and confident life.
Gabrieles childhood is well-ordered, if she knew any affection from father. But the love between a mother and brother compensate this lack something. For years, the mother of the daughter lives in subordination to the husband no matter how obnoxious he may behave. Breaks out and goes to another man, the mother from this marriage back leaving the children with the father. For Gabriele their ideal world collapses, she believes is betrayed by the only people who wholeheartedly could confide in them. So it starts to verschliessen- creates a behavior pattern that developed at each future actual or perceived rejection by fellow human beings up to almost complete numbness. With a vengeance, tried to stand on my own two feet and make it.
But the pattern of the unconditional subordination lived by the mother pursues Gabriele during their training and worse, through their marriages through. Three times she gets Walter who lives at their own expense at men who exploit this behavior pattern, Kurt, recycling the hell on earth you in the course of their marriage, which pummels them, raped and humiliated again and again. Their four children to see this violence. Finally Kurt has beaten up Gabriele, and found the strength finally to end this unbearable situation. She meets Jens, who completely the opposite of Kurt seems to be gentle, very to them constantly around them. This in turn feels constricted Gabriele, has the sense to lose the air to breathe. Tried to the children’s sake as in previous marriages to adapt and still keep, but she no longer endure it. This marriage also fails. In Achim, Gabriele met through the Internet, she believes to have finally found the man with the lasting relationship founded can lead to love and trust. Or just again repeating the same patterns that have given their lives and led them in bad life situations and unhappy marriages? No. Meanwhile succeeded Gabriele, recognize the pernicious behaviors and repeatedly against it to fight… honestly and wholeheartedly the author describes the crucial experiences, that particular childhood, adolescence, and adult life. You makes it clear how important it is to make free of anerzogenem wrongdoing that ultimately, opposes the successful search for the own life happiness. New release end of October 2009 “Broken chains” by Gabriele Gabriele Remscheid Remscheid